How do i control my anger without meds?

I was diagnosed with being emotionally handicapped when i was 9 i was then diagnosed with BI-Polar disorder when i was 19 I was on many differnt meds they made me feel worse or ever madder more depressed when i was 22 i decided to stop takeing them I felt like i was on a rollercoaster ride for a long time i am now turning 25 i have not taken meds and have been feeling great for 2 years i do struggle and i wont tell you it is easy everday is a another hill to climb im now done with college and working 65 hours a week i have a husband that i have been with for 5 years that has by no means helped me if anything i drove him crazy!!! you have to find what makes you happy everyday new things to do if I can do it anyone can i was a horrible person you have to controll it dont let it controll you!!! good luck